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'Soldier On'
was written for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) by artist Greg Barnhill. Click here to download the song and/or make a donation to TAPS.

The Grahams believe sharing their story and continuing to serve in the military is their way to make sure the boys’ legacy lives on.

If this is your first visit to the Graham Memorial Website, there are many links on the Legacy of Hope page that will acquaint you with our history, what we've learned, how we've coped and how we're attempting to spare others similar losses.

"While we are mourning the loss of our sons,
others are rejoicing to meet them in a place where they can once again be at each other's side."

"Jeffrey and Kevin together were like two parts of a whole. They were so connected on this earth and we believe it must be so in eternity. Both of them were willing to sacrifice for the greater good of others. We will miss them forever but we believe their sacrifices were part of a greater destiny"

"They died fighting different battles"

Jeff and Kevin doing "the pinning"
when Dad became a Major

Graham Family at Jeff's
Commissioning, 9 May 2003

Many have prayed for Carol, Melanie and me and without these prayers we truly do not know how we would be making it each day. Thank you for your thoughts and prayers and for being so very compassionate.